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Donald Sterling (allegedly) : “I wish I had just paid her off”

May 2, 2014, 5:57 PM EDT

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It wasn’t too hard to grasp how this whole Donald Sterling racist audio tape going public happened: Sterling and girlfriend V. Stivianio (not her real name, and not how she defines her relationship with him, but I don’t think she’d like my definition of it either) are together for years, his wife Shelly gets fed up and sues Stivianio for $1.8 million, Stivianio lawyers up but when the case is not dismissed goes to Donald to get money/make it go away, he says no because he’s Donald Sterling, suddenly a few days later TMZ has the tape.

If you want confirmation that’s probably how it went down, look what Sterling allegedly told DuJour Magazine:

During an exclusive discussion with DuJour’s Jason Binn, Sterling expressed remorse for the way his situation’s unfurled. Speaking of girlfriend Vanessa Stiviano, who released to the media audio footage of Sterling on a racist tirade, Sterling says, “I wish I had just paid her off.”

Expect to hear more from Sterling, who tells DuJour he’s limiting himself to interviews with Barbara Walters and the NBA.

Stay classy, Donald Sterling.

The NBA is coming hard, trying to force Sterling to sell his franchise. He is expected to fight. This is going to get uglier before it gets any kind of resolution.

If you want to read a smart, very well researched piece on how all this went down, read Ramona Shelburne’s piece for ESPN. That is filled with real insights.

Sterling never seemed to fully understand that the walls were caving in on him. Saturday was his 80th birthday. He and his wife stayed in San Francisco the entire weekend. He was planning to go to the game on Sunday until Silver called on Saturday and asked him not to. Shelly sat courtside and later flew home on the team plane. Sterling and (Clippers team president Andy) Roeser, who has worked for him for over 30 years — first at his real estate corporation, then with the Clippers, watched the game together in San Francisco.

Roeser was in an impossible position. On the one hand, his job was to serve and counsel his boss. On the other, he knew what his boss had done and said was deplorable. Roeser hired an outside consultant to help craft a statement to respond to the tapes on Saturday. They discussed and weighed three different messages. The first was to cop to everything. Say that Sterling was sick, that he needed help, that he apologized and felt terrible for offending anyone. The second was to dispute the veracity of the tapes, question the motives of the woman on the tapes and why they were released, and argue that what’s said on them misrepresents Sterling’s true feelings. The third was to say very little except that the team would cooperate with the NBA investigation. Roeser felt the third message was the best option. Sterling did not. They went with defiance, and they stuck Roeser’s name on it.

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